Saturday, January 28, 2006
Thursday, January 19, 2006
Journal To Discover The Power Of Extended Family
Avoid the dysfunctional vision of family. Build a vision that uses the power of family. Use a Journal to help you see beyond the conflicts. Mine the conflicts for insights. Evaluate the contributions of family members. Use your journal to establish the value of family members. Use a journal to build a guiding vision of family.
While you record the present family events, look for opportunities to build upon them. Focus upon how family can provide mutual aid and support. Note how well is the family able to respond to both adversity and opportunity. Record how the family grows its power. Make note of how individual members make contributions to the family. Keep track of what unifies family and what takes away from unity. Pass on the journal so that it can serve as a legacy.
Sunday, January 15, 2006
Tuesday, January 10, 2006
Journal To Leave A Legacy
In the past, Journals were the Family Bible or an occasional memoir. One copy to be shared by all. As family members moved they grew apart. The influences of any written record were small and dissipate over time.
Today technology allows us to make multiple copies available to a large group.
With a journal on the internet, the ability to influence future generations has greater power.
Thursday, January 05, 2006
Journaling For Stronger Families
Pictures taken can be added to your Journal. Combine scrapbook items with writing to make your family journal enjoyable and pleasant to the eye. You may have a taken a picture that is worth a thousand words.
Maybe you are not the journaling type. However, probably someone in the family is a capable writer and or scrapbook type. Use this as an opportunity to form a working alliance. Maybe, you are the idea person and another family member is a pack rat or maybe another takes great family photos. Combine your efforts. Maybe you can work separately most of the time and combine your efforts at a later date. A strong family finds ways to combine each others interests and assets. Journaling is another way to do things together.
The Good Sons way of journaling includes acting like a team. Journaling offers an opportunity to make a contribution towards family strength. The Good Sons way of journaling uses the concept of the Dynamic Family Table to provide meaning, purpose and direction to the effort. That is, a focus upon recording how family can provide mutual aid and support. A Good Sons Journal explores the principles of: Growth - Contribution- Unity. & Contribution